blog post
Making decisions, finally with heart.
Lately, I have found myself spending a lot of time alone. I’ve always felt comfortable in my own company, but I also have a busy and at times, over-analytical mind. Making decisions is sometimes a torturous task for me. That might sound dramatic, I know. I’ve come to realise that I have a – shall I call it a character flaw? – strong desire to not disappoint or let the other person down. And simultaneously and paradoxically there is the loaded thought of “what if it’s the wrong choice? What if I miss out on X, or Y? What if I’m selling myself short?” and so on. These contrasting “noises” in the background cause confusion and decision-paralysis.
That was then, now I am doing it differently. I’ve come to trust the inner voice, the heart, intuition, the gut feelings, that clear first feeling of either ease or unease as my compass. I’ve come to acknowledge that the first thing that comes to my mind got there from my heart – the all-knowing, wise, miraculous, powerful love-force organ that is always whispering to the body, to the mind “…this is true for you, this is not. do this, go there, say that..”
The heart – the all-knowing, wise, miraculous powerful love-force organ that is always whispering tot he body, to the mind...
Sometimes I can’t or don’t listen to my heart, to what my body is telling me – sometimes I doubt my intuition or feeling. But, if there’s an uneasy feeling when I think about a decision to choose A or B, and that feeling stays strong and consistent, that’s it – that tells me. Go with the other choice that feels good, that my body feels the ease with.
Muscle testing (aka energy testing) is a similar process in terms of the objective to arrive to a truth of the matter via the intelligence of the body. When I feel into decisions via the heart with cues from body sensations (breathing, gut etc.) rather than focusing the mind – I find that the results, or shall I say consequences of choosing a decision becomes irrelevant, because the heart has led. Because the heart has love and intelligence beyond what we can ever fathom. Not trusting the heart to guide you is un-loving of yourself. This is my personal take-away.💛